Everyone in life is said to have a
certain way or pattern to how they view life and the things around them. Every
man has a particular way he views things, believe in them and how he reacts to
them. In all, man acts on a particular belief system; he operates on his own
opinion which in a large way determines his tomorrow.
No man is certain of his tomorrow. Yes,
a man can have a desired expected end but there is no guarantee for how events
planned unfold towards that certain expectation. And there goes the cliché- “we
hope for the best and prepare for the worst”. Suffice to say, man lives his
everyday life in complete consideration of what tomorrow has to offer.
Tomorrow can be defined in different
ways, best seen in every man’s own perspective. Just as some would see tomorrow
as the day after today, others may see it as the “near future”. Viewing
tomorrow in the former can be considered myopic which the latter considers
tomorrow on a much larger and long range vision. How we view our tomorrow
largely determines the kind of life we live and how much we can expect from it.
It is evident that no man can predict
tomorrow. Yes! No one can be in complete certainty of what tomorrow has to
offer. You need not be dismayed by the thought of not knowing what your
tomorrow has to offer but take solace in the thought that you can save your
tomorrow. Save my tomorrow? Yes, you sure can save your tomorrow by the life
you lead today and by every action and decision you make today.
I know you are probably racking your
brain wondering how possible it is for one to save his tomorrow. Well, it is
not as hard as you think. All you need do is learn to personally develop and
improve yourself every day-being a better version of yourself today than you
were yesterday. To make this work, you need to have a proper mindset, a
positive attitude and a loving heart.
Tomorrow is full of so much
uncertainty. It is a day in constant flux that just a singular action can alter
the outcome of the next day and many more days after that. So, in achieving a
desired tomorrow, one must cultivate the habit of living with the proper
mindset. A proper mindset determines how you view things and life in general,
how you respond to these things and how you relate to your immediate environment.
One who can learn to maintain a proper mindset aligned to success and a good
healthy life can always achieve a fulfilled life- a better tomorrow.
Also, a man who hopes for a better
tomorrow must be ready to live life with a positive attitude. He must be
enthusiastic about the things he loves and hope for. This would imply that even
when those expected outcomes are not forthcoming, situations are not rosy and
challenges seem to be overwhelming, you must learn to see the best out of that
very situation. A positive attitude demands you operate above the mediocre
life, beyond accepting just anything life has to offer. A positive attitude
demands you become an optimistic person, seeing possibilities in every
situation even when all hope might seem bleak; it requires you see things the
way you desire and need them to be even though they might not appear so.
A positive attitude yields much as it
is said, “nothing great can be built upon a pessimistic approach”. How you
think and perceive things around you greatly affect and change the situations
around you; positive thinking yields a positive outcome while a negative
thought yields the fruits of the “down-life”. So, it is only right you
construct the right attitude and approach to every aspect of your life and
always expecting the best out of tomorrow.
To guarantee a better tomorrow, one
must be ready to search for more, an element that complements a positive
attitude and a proper mindset- love.
Love encompasses all good tidings on earth. Love is indeed a binding force that
has the ability to cause things to come into effect. Love is all we need and it
is worthwhile to know that the best person you could ever love is YOU. Yes, the
best person you could ever show love to is you.
Loving yourself for who you are, what
you are and what you stand for greatly determines how you see yourself and how
much relevance you attach yourself; for as you see yourself, so shall people
also see you. Loving yourself in the right frame determines the scope to how
much or little you see yourself and how possible it is for you to cause change and
effect in your world.
When you love yourself, it should be
genuine and not some sort of narcissism.
Loving yourself says a lot about you,
defines who you truly are and only when you can love yourself can you love some
other person and the world at large. When you show love to a person, it helps
generate the confidence within your inner being; it helps elevate one’s sense
of sense esteem. Showing love to someone helps build a positive lifestyle,
helps you gain respect and it allows you feel loved back.
In securing a better tomorrow, saving
our future, we must be willing to love and be ready to be loved back as well. A life filled with love can only
experience fullness, satisfaction and accomplishment. So, today, decide to live
a life where you see everything working out for your good, every situation just
how you want and need it and lastly, showing love in all that you do; just then
can you enjoy a life with a secured tomorrow. Indeed, a man can truly live a
good life with a better tomorrow in view. Start today! Live the good life now.
About the Author
Ettoh Oghenekefe is a content creator. He writes
articles, stories and develops ideas/content for start-up firms. He enjoys best
translating words and ideas into enjoyable stories.
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