Monday 28 August 2017

The New And Old Wine: Towards A Transfigured Nigeria




It is customary among the Igbos and Africans that when a man dies intestate, his sons or children depending on the region, inherit his estate. This includes his very personal belongings which he didn't share while alive. My case was not different. When I lost my dad some years ago, though he died intestate, he left behind him some landed properties and some of his personal properties, I automatically became in charge of the properties and the first son. While he was alive, I visited his wardrobe once in a while and check out some cloths that I could put on for any special occasion. At his death I converted most of his to mine including some of his cloths, though a lot of them were oversized hence, they were packed in a new Ghana must go bag.

Some weeks ago, the senate put to death an old order, the death which put to birth a new order, this new order set sail the active participation of youths in politics. The bill reads that a young person who is a citizen of Nigeria and is up to 25 years can contest for the seat of house of senate and representative while 30 years and above goes for governorship and 35 for the presidency. They also passed a bill that there should be position for independent candidates. This means that one does not have to go through the rigours of registering or belong to a political party before contesting for a political position.

With this epoch-making development in our Nigerian politics, a whole lot will change and in fact has changed, for it will no longer be business as usual. It won't be the case of the old wine littered at the party with this touch and make up in politics, new wine, novel idea and experiential ideas will dominate the political stage and cause a tsunamic revolution which will birth progression in all ramification. This development will cause a blend to correct the bend before the end.

Some days ago, the people of Uganda, elected a 23 year old john Paul Nwigiri who is a 300 level student in the university and an independent candidate making him the youngest in Kenya. How he did it will be story for another day. We all are aware that new and fresh wine is sweet and could easily make one go drunk while old wine is sour and definitely not enticing but to a large extent medicinal. Both must complement each other in other to stay safe. This new wine is the youths while the old wine are the vanguards and veterans in the Nigerian politics.


What is the cup of blessing here?
St Augustine said that, a good painter brings out the best of his work by bringing and misting both dull and bright colours of paints. Before or during 2019 general elections, a lot of politically ambitious youths will vie for public offices, they will do this alongside political veterans, at the end of the election, the result would be that the political arena will be inundated with fresh ideas and experiential ideas. The successful marriage of this duo will hence metamorphose to a positive result.



Remember what I said at the beginning? We cannot totally jettison the experienced politicians for new comers, the reason is not far-fetched, this can be discovered from the Yoruba adage that says "the new broom may know how to sweep very well but the old broom knows the corners"

In the Nigerian political system as it is about to unfold, (it will be flooded with new and old). Thus, there is need to understand boundaries as to the extent to which new ideas will be pushed and traditions be followed. These two must blend to straighten the bend. They must also understand
that they belong to two worlds and must seek to understand and respect each other’s personalities and ideas rather than disagree and disrespect each other. They should remember to not totally throw away the adage that says “what an elder sits down to see, a child will climb the highest mountain and will not see it”. This is experience. On the other hand a child may have new cloths, but he cannot have as much rags as the elder. This is wealth of experience. In as much as experience is a veritable tool not to make the same mistake twice, Nobel ideas will help refine, reform, rebuild and re-establish the experience and bring it forth as a new one.

Having emphasised the above, the transfiguration of Nigeria does not need the dominance of a particular class- experience alone cannot cause transfiguration neither will new ideas alone. Thus, it is a two way event n which both party needs each other. It is my candid advice that youthful exuberance must be controlled and curtailed if we must have a different and better result. Nigeria can be great again, her citizens can be better too and everything can be transformed and transfigured. The old wine may taste sour, hence it will to the extent of its sourness detract drinkers from gulping, at the same time the new wine will be so sweet and irresistible, if taken without caution, it may lead to an overdose. But where the duo are mixed up, the result will be obvious and consumption should be cautious.

Conclusion
There should be no such thing as “the leaders of tomorrow”. The future is now here, tomorrow is now today. The youths have been given the right to rule and be ruled, they now have the opportunity to correct the ills of their fathers past and better their future by themselves.

Governance will shift from age to mindset, from exclusive to inclusive, the youths will no longer be a tool used and dumped after elections, they will be a formidable force and decider of their fate, affairs and that of others. It will no longer be the case of a child who washes his hands well will eat with the elders but instead will be anyone who washes his hands clean will eat at the table of men.

Finally, we shouldn't forget that a united Nigeria should be promoted and not class, look beyond class and focused on a common front- for we all have same enemy and that enemy is the evil facing Nigeria which we must defeat collectively.






About the Author

Nwosu Marcus Ifeanyi  is the Program Coordinator of Standout Media TV in the South West zone of Nigeria, he is a writer and a poet par excellence. He is quite passionate about Teens and Youth Development.

Thursday 24 August 2017

The Pain of Regret



                                       

            
Every new day is always different from the last. We as humans always hope to have a day better than those we have always had. We tend to want new memories that are more appealing than those had in the past. We long for satisfaction in the present and anticipate a better tomorrow. This is certainly the lifestyle every man would desire- one where things are perfect. But then, life isn’t always as we’d hope for. Some actions and decisions we make leave scars that hurt our present and some extending to our future.

Man is faced every day with the task of making decisions that are paramount to his success in life. Sometimes, he makes good decisions and at other times, his choice might be poor. A poor decision might be one that can easily be recovered from or one that forever lingers; the latter needing more help than the former. In this instance, one who makes a mistake and forever lingers in it leaves a gap in his heart. Soon, he begins to feel empty from the mistake which he made and builds regret in his every day action.



A great number of people worry a lot and confuse it for thinking. They tend to worry over things that have happened in which they have very little power to change and instead of living in the present of their action, they dwell in the past trying to change that which already has happened. They find solace trying to correct their mistakes-living in the past-losing the gift of what the present day has to offer. Doing this, they suffer from the constant hurt of regrets; they realize how little they can change the past and how much they have lost in the present living in the past.

When man make mistakes and lives his life in regret upon the poor choice he has made in the past, all he is left with is wishes that things could be different, better. He comes to the realization that he has lost a whole lot in his state of regret and now wishes things could have been different. But then, how much can a wish change? Failed wishes lead to disappointment and in turn kill every atom of hope a man could possibly have.

In reality, many men if not all have had experiences in life that they regret. All that counts is the action and the life they lead after such experiences are made. Instead of bringing down bridges and living downhill, it is only helpful you wake up from the hurt of mistakes and regrets and win back your life. The only solution to regrets is simply learning from experience, getting back on track and being prepared for whatever life has to offer.



Events in life are uncertain but one thing is certain- a life lived in regrets can never be void of pain. The pain living in regrets is never ending and accumulates with every passing day. You are the pilot of your life. You alone can decide that which can make or mar you; that which can hurt you or make you feel good. It is only best and refreshing for you to pick the “up-side” of life and live above regrets. Everything about your life starts and ends with you. Decide today to live a life above regrets.


About the Author 
Ettoh Oghenekefe is a content creator. He writes articles, stories and develops ideas/content for start-up firms. He enjoys best translating words and ideas into enjoyable stories.

Well…What If You Live Long?




There are very few people I know today who are not really keen on growing old. Somehow, despite the challenges faced daily, add to that gloomy news about the future as a result of the economy, most people are still hopeful. Almost every discussion about how bleak things are end with ‘e go better’. That's like saying, "Through it all, I believe things will get better."

It's interesting. Some don't even bother to pray about the future anymore. Maybe due to religious inclinations or assurances, you have come to believe there is no need to 'waste time' praying about that aspect of your life. You definitely will live long, whether the devil likes it or not.

I congratulate you on your confidence. Then, I ask: "What if you live long? How are you going to live this long life that you have been blessed with? What will you be doing during this time? How healthy or happy will you be? Where will you get the money to live this life?

Whether you will regret living long, or whether you will see the long life as a blessing, is in your hands to decide. If you will avoid the diseases typically associated with old age, and be able to travel the world with your spouse like you'd dreamed, may depend greatly on what your health insurance plans are. Whether you will be able to provide your grand-kids with the education and opportunities you could not afford at their age may be a huge function of what you are investing your money into now.



Don't live with the illusion that you won't retire until 'later in life'. In fact, you may already be retired without realising it. Back in the days, you waited to get an award for meritorious service, possibly a gold wristwatch, gratuity and a qualification for pensions, when you retired at 50 or 60 years. What you did with yourself (or your money) afterwards was entirely up to you.

Today, the story is different. Many, for example, have chosen the path of entrepreneurship which means, except deliberate efforts are made to address these areas, you have no pensions to look forward to. Now is when you have the opportunity to build a pool from which you can draw "in retirement".
Rather than wait for retirement to happen to you, prepare now to be able to take care of yourself, do good and leave an inheritance to your children's children, when you retire. Make your money work for you now, even if you're only 25 years old. If you retire at 50 and die at 90, you would only have had 25 years of earning with which to live 40 post-retirement years!



Now, you see that you cannot merely save your way up to retirement. Find opportunities to invest and ensure your investment earnings are not eroded by inflation. Most importantly, start early. Let compound interest work for you.
 "The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago; the second-best time is

now."
                                            -Chinese Proverb




About the Author 
Olubunmi is a Personal Money Therapist at LIMER Personal Finance (www.limerglobal.com). She granns from @itsOlubunmi.



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